Confidence is hard to obtain on a daily basis, let alone to hold on to. I recognize how important it is to have confidence flowing through my veins to be the best that I can be. As Bobby Jones once said, the 5.5 inches between your ears has to be in the right place!…
The opportunity to be a writer is one that I take advantage of every single day. When I first started writing consistently, whether it was journaling, blogging, or other sources, I did it to just take my mind off of things going on around me. Today, I am using writing to turn my mind…
Life is a constant search for what is next. My vision is always fixed on wanting to be "happy". But many times I feel like I fall short of what I want to feel. I realize that the better word to describe what I'm searching for is "peace". Let me explain. There are…
I've been in a much better mindset as of late. Despite mistakes being made (as normal, it's life), I haven't been so hard on myself. I've realized, I've learned, and I've been patient. Grinding, as some might say. Also, I've been writing (shocker). I have been writing down little things each day, reminders of…
It's hard dealing with this predicament: I care about my image and my reputation amongst those around me. I want to lead by example. I want to always be strong, courageous, confident. But there are times when I need to open up. Times that I need to open up about what I am thinking…
Who I am now is nowhere near where I was yesterday, last year, or 10 years ago. I've learned. I've failed. I've succeeded. I've experienced. I've done a lot in my lifetime, and I know the learning never stops. When I think about what is ahead for me, I continuously think about how hard something…
I always talk about how much I learn each day in life. Lesson after lesson comes, and I am so thankful for all of them. The most recent lesson I've learned is putting my cares before my fears. I often find myself in situations that are controlled by my fears. My fear will overtake my…
If this were a year ago, I would be scared. I would be questioning myself and wondering if this is exactly what I wanted out of life. Where do I want to go from here? The future used to be a major question for me - but I know where I am headed. I…
I made a huge mistake. To many, it may not seem like it. But to me, it's a big deal. I have a job to do, and in this moment, I failed. I completely failed. This is what I was afraid of. I am extremely fearful of having a responsibility that affects more than…
This past weekend, I was in New Jersey for a national leadership conference for my fraternity. There was a keynote speaker who came to speak about halfway through the conference about a variety of topics. One particular piece of information that stuck with me was regarding stress. He said, "During stress, your physical vision decreases…
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